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Domestic Violence Resources

Domestic violence (DV) includes physical, emotional, financial, or psychological abuse by a partner, family member, or carer.

Signs of DV

Controlling behavior, isolation, threats, intimidation, or physical harm.

Circle of Violence

Tension → Incident → Reconciliation → Calm → Repeat.

Signs of an Abusive Relationship

Gaslighting, monitoring movements, threats to harm children/pets, constant criticism.

General Resources

Self-Representation

How to run a family law case | Victoria Legal Aid

Organisations

Family Life: Website

Salvation Army: Crisis Support

RESPECT: 1800RESPECT

Uniting: Support Services

Hotels / Bedsits

  • Instructions for Hotels:
    • Discreet check-in, no early wake-up calls for kids.
    • Breakfast is delivered in disposable containers; leave it outside the door.
    • Ask for weekly deals (e.g., Booking.com).
    • Use recreational areas if safe.
    • Keep phone charged at all times.

Rebuild

  • PO Box: Australia Post (list as “Suite [Number]”).
  • Deed Poll: Name Change Process
  • Contact rental agencies
  • Use trusted references (line manager/safe friends) with prior warning.

 Divorce Online

Parenting Plan

Relationships

Affordable Accommodation: Realestate.com.au

Consider 

  • Renting a storage to store personal items not for immediate use
  • Scanning all electronic devices including cars for tracker
  • Reaching out to GP
  • If parent – reaching out with the school with copy of the IVO
    Please seek legal advice

State/Territory-Specific Resources

Victoria

New South Wales (NSW)

Federal Resources

Northern Territory (NT)

Australian Capital Territory (ACT)

Queensland (QLD)

Safety First

Always keep your IVO/DVO active.

Use a PO Box for privacy.

Contact trusted friends/organizations for support.